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legal institution (en)  de married couple (en) nominal kinship (en) aukuwa institution (en) |
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bikin aure wani bikin ne wanda mutane biyu suka haɗu a cikin aure. Hadisai da al'adu na aure sun bambanta sosai tsakanin al'adu, kabilanci, kabilun, Addinai, ƙungiyoyi, ƙasashe, zamantakewar jama'a, da kuma jima'i. Yawancin bukukuwan aure sun haɗa da musayar alkawarin aure ta ma'aurata; gabatar da kyauta (misali, hadaya, zobba, abu na alama, furanni, kuɗi, ko rigar); da kuma sanarwar aure ta jama'a ta wani mutum mai iko ko mai bikin. Sau da yawa ana sanya tufafin aure na musamman, kuma wani lokacin ana bin bikin bikin bikin ne da liyafar aure. Kiɗa, shayari, addu'o'i, ko karatu daga matani na addini ko wallafe-wallafen kuma ana haɗa su cikin bikin, da kuma al'adun camfi.
Abubuwa na yau da kullun a cikin al'adu
[gyara sashe | gyara masomin]
Wasu al'adu sun karbi al'adar gargajiya ta Yammacin Turai na fararen bikin aure, inda amarya ke sanye da fararen rigar bikin aure da mayafi. Wannan al'adar ta shahara ta hanyar auren Sarauniya Victoria . [1] Wasu sun ce zaɓin Sarauniya Victoria na fararen rigar na iya zama alamar cin hanci da rashawa, amma kuma yana iya rinjayar dabi'un da ta riƙe wanda ya jaddada tsarkakar jima'i.
Amfani da zoben aure ya daɗe yana cikin bukukuwan aure na addini a yankin Indiya, Turai da Amurka, amma asalin al'adar ba a bayyane yake ba. Ɗaya daga cikin yiwuwar ita ce imanin Romawa a cikin Vena amoris, wanda aka yi imanin cewa jini ne wanda ke gudana daga yatsa na huɗu (ƙwallo) kai tsaye zuwa zuciya. Don haka, lokacin da ma'aurata suka sa zobba a kan wannan yatsa, zukatan su sun haɗa. Masanin tarihi Vicki Howard ya nuna cewa imani da ingancin "tsohon" na aikin mai yiwuwa shine kirkirar zamani. A Amurka, ƙungiyar auren ango ba ta bayyana ba har zuwa farkon karni na 20, yayin da a Turai ya kasance wani ɓangare na al'ada tun zamanin d ̄ a na Romawa, kamar yadda lauya Gaius ya shaida.
Fitowa daga bikin auren kuma ana kiranta "send off" kuma sau da yawa ya haɗa da al'adun gargajiya; alal misali, a cikin bukukuwan Habasha, sababbin ma'aurata da sauran bikin auren suna durƙusa da sumbace gwiwoyin dattawa. A mafi yawan kasashen Yamma, da kuma kasashe kamar Indiya [2] da Malaysia, [3] aikawa sau da yawa ya haɗa da aikin jefa shinkafa (alama ce ta wadata da haihuwa) [2] ko wasu tsaba a sababbin ma'aurata. Duk da sanannen imani, yin amfani da shinkafa da ba a dafa ba don wannan dalili ba shi da lahani ga tsuntsaye.[4] A cikin al'adu da yawa, mutane suna jefa takalma maimakon shinkafa.
Sau da yawa ana bin bikin aure ta hanyar liyafar aure ko karin kumallo na bikin aure, inda al'adun na iya haɗawa da jawabai daga ango, mafi kyawun mutum, mahaifin amarya kuma mai yiwuwa amarya, rawa ta farko na sababbin ma'aurata a matsayin ma'aurato, da kuma yanke waƙar bikin aure mai kyau. A cikin 'yan shekarun nan al'adun sun canza don haɗawa da rawa uba da 'yar ga amarya da mahaifinta, kuma wani lokacin kuma rawa uwa da ɗa ga ango da mahaifiyarsa.
Wuraren da aka yi
[gyara sashe | gyara masomin]A wasu ƙasashe akwai ƙuntatawa kan inda za a iya yin bikin aure, misali kafin Dokar Aure ta 1994, aure a Ingila da Wales na iya faruwa ne kawai a cikin gine-ginen addini da aka ba da izini ko ofisoshin rajista na jama'a, amma Dokar ta faɗaɗa zaɓuɓɓukan da ke akwai don ba da izinin bukukuwan aure a wasu "yanki da aka amince da su". Cretney ya gano wurare masu yawa waɗanda suka nemi amincewa bayan aiwatar da wannan canjin doka, gami da Otal-otal, manyan gidaje, Filin kwallon kafa, rairayin bakin teku, da tsoffin jiragen yaki. Za a iya amincewa da wuraren waje masu alaƙa don bukukuwan aure bayan an karɓi Dokokin Aure da Haɗin Kai na 2022 (Gidan da aka amince da shi).
Kayan bikin aure na gargajiya
[gyara sashe | gyara masomin]=Manazarta
[gyara sashe | gyara masomin]- ↑ "Why Do Brides Wear White?". britannica.com. Archived from the original on September 6, 2021. Retrieved Sep 7, 2021.
- ↑ 2.0 2.1 B Singh (2013). "Marketing strategies of rice exporters" (PDF). Archived (PDF) from the original on May 9, 2019. Retrieved May 9, 2019.
- ↑ Abd. Razak Aziz, Awang Azaman Awang Pawi (2016-12-01). "Redefining Malay Food in the Post Malaysia's New Economic Policy (NEP)" (PDF). Journal of Tourism, Hospitality & Culinary Arts (JTHCA). 8 (2). Archived (PDF) from the original on May 9, 2019. Retrieved May 9, 2019.
- ↑ "Fact or Fiction: Uncooked Rice is Bad for Birds". American Chemical Society. 2018-11-05. Archived from the original on May 9, 2019. Retrieved May 9, 2019.